My hormone woman
as I named her in my last post on hormone love.
New things to come.
New transformation to be followed.
The hormone woman and me in collaboration on a particular amazing thing:
Orgasmic Birth Revolution
here I come….
I know Valentina Salonna now since almost 1,5 years.
She is a yoga therapist, a sexologist, and feminist in its graceful form. A woman that followed me through my journey to find my way back to ovulation and so expressing my fertility to rest and nest… (read more here.)
But who would have thought that when I first stepped into her office of feminine love to heal my blockage of ovulation=menstruation, that a year later I would come into the same space, but this time for a special training in orgasmic birth!!
Yes, officially I am pregnant, nothing to hide about that. Showcasing my fertility literally so to say. Now going through a huge transformation in my body physically but also spiritually& mentally to be ready for letting life pass through me.
Being pregnant is the first thing that is new to me.
Giving birth is a utopia to me.
But delivering a baby in an orgasmic way is something that blew my mind and maybe in a certain way still does…
But at this moment now, in an exciting way and no more in a freighting one!!
Valentina Salonna approached me right away for this possibility and I thought: WHY NOT!!
I love to go deep into things I do. If I do something I do it fully, all the way it goes.
The orgasmic birth approach, initially founded by Debra Pascali-Bonaro, is a new way of seeing the birth. An approach to giving birth while letting go of the usual language of pain, but instead inviting the new language of pleasure!!
Valentina Salonna explains how this path of washing away ancient guilt beliefs, spoke right away to her, with her own mother birthing her with a certain ease, she never feared the possible birth herself!
Working since a few years as a sexuality and yoga therapist with mostly women she felt it is a natural adding to her practice.
There are different tools offered in the path of orgasmic birth training: From mind-mapping your fears away, over breathing&yoga exercises to open up your body to all of it, till tapping the emotions into a new positive structure embedded in your body; also called emotional freedom tapping and landing with a visualisation of your birth that ends into your personal hypnosis.
The orgasmic birth path puts a big importance of washing away those old beliefs of guilt, unworthiness and wrong values we have as a woman all so naturally…
It goes back to bible scriptures with Eva’s act of giving away the beautiful lush apple to handsome Adam…
That Eva, she must have been a strong woman! Unfortunately, it was labeled to be a sin and still lingers in our minds.
Even after all those emancipations and female revolutions, womanhood is something that needs to be renowned by us:
KNOWING THAT IT IS OK TO KNOW YOUR WORTH,
KNOW YOUR STRENGTH,
KNOW YOUR VALUE,
KNOW YOUR POWER &
KNOW YOUR TALENTS,
EXPRESSING THEM WITH FREE OPEN LEGS AND ARMS AND HAPPY PLEASURE SOUNDS!!
Valentina Salonna, in collaboration with the founder Debra Pascali-Bonaro, help you to recognize your old patterns full of shame and guilt, to finally get them out of your breathing, moving and thinking system so that your body speaks the way it feels and masters the process of the pleasurable empowering act of giving birth!
My path was a training of 5 long sessions in the space of femme fatale.
But shortened slightly, since I have my yoga practice in and outlined since many years.
With the little preview, you get a slight taste of all those sessions I could join.
Being pregnant is a journey and if you choose to, a fantastic conscious one.
I chose it to be heart opening, mind cleansing and fear healing.
I started with the little me inside of me, I let her speak freely and got to hear her real voice.
I cried out all those mislead patterns of my ancient female tribe.
I felt as weak as I never felt before, as insecure as I last remember when I was just born.
I felt lost and unsure what is there to come.
I chose to tap it out and change my tapping into positivity.
I made the impossible possible and let those tears run down my cheeks while being up side down in headstand pose.
I gave it patience, I allowed it to crack the wounds wide open to heal and cleanse out those deep, deep long lasting wrong beliefs.
I listened and most importantly I spoke.
I shared my wishes and my visions made them clear.
And now I know, I am who I am.
With my beautiful soft voice that I will use to yell and sing and squirt.
I know I have it in control.
I have it in control but always be able to let go.
I mean control in the sense of being the master, the queen, the woman that owns that birth.
The birth of the baby that I am hosting now, that soul that was gifted to come into my life and the other way around.
If orgasmic or not, all I know I am ready and more than grateful to let life pass through me.
I serve life and let it all happen.
Breath in: EMPOWERMENT, Breath out: I CAN!!
I let you know how it all will transform…..